
January 2, 2012 - The Key to Instilling New Good Habits
This is the second day of 2012 and like many people, perhaps you wrote down your New Year's resolutions yesterday or you're finishing them today. And, you feel determined to achieve them! Yesterday I heard a radio news story that reported, not surprisingly, that the top New Year's resolutions include getting more exercise, losing weight, and developing overall healthier habits.
That's all fine - but, don't you sometimes feel that every New Year people are living out Bill Murray's character in the movie Ground Hog Day? Remember how every morning he wakes up ready to embrace the new day only to discover he is re-living the exact same previous difficult day?
How many times/years/Januarys have you made New Year's resolutions to get healthier, eat better, lose weight, and get fit? Did you start out the New Year all jazzed to finally achieve all those laudable goals once and for all? In my Toastmaster club I recall people giving speeches in January about their commitment to follow through on their goals this year once and for all. Yet sadly, a month or two later, they slid back into their old patterns and by year's end, they returned to square one.
It's commonly known that fitness centers, gyms, and exercise classes of all sorts are jammed in January. By February, the crowds start to thin and people are no longer vying for a parking space at the gym or in the class. By March or April, sadly, some exercise venues become ghost towns!
Why is it so difficult to eliminate old negative, limiting habits and instill new empowering ones? In my experience, it's because people try to make too radical a change too soon. If you haven't run in years and make a goal to run a marathon this year- what do you do? Do you jump out of bed at 5 am, don your running clothes and run 10, 15, or 26 miles the next day? Aah....no. Or I hope not. Your body would protest a few minutes after you started to run and it would scream soreness the following morning if you could move out of bed at all.
This seems like common sense and is hardly brain science. But, I am amazed by how many people overlook this strategy! They operate like a drill seargeant whipping themelves into shape. That may work for a few individuals, but, I believe that most people would stick with their commitments throughout the year if they eased into their new positive habits. As I advise in my book, Yoga at Home: Gain Energy, Flexibility, & Serenity in 20-30 Minutes Day, start a yoga practice by doing 5 minutes a day and add only a few minutes a week until you're up to 20-30 minutes a day. Instilling the yoga habit will be so much easier and you'll be at least ten times more likely to maintain it!
Are you sincere about keeping your New Year's commitment to a healthier lifestyle (which I hope includes daily yoga!)? Then ease into 2012. Take one healthy baby step at a time.
Yours for a healthy 2012 with gentle yoga,
Laura Venecia Rodriguez, The Beginners Yoga at Home Coach